Things got so tough during the "Real Housewives of Orange County" reunion that Gretchen Rossi couldn't bear to re-watch it.

In case you missed it, Gretchen was reduced to tears when her castmates said her proposal to Slade Smiley was more showmance than romance:

toofab's Lawrence Yee caught up with the reality star at the Have Faith Swimgerie Collection preview at Kyle By Alene Too in Beverly Hills last night, where she explained why she didn't need to relive that moment and gave an update on her wedding plans!

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