Sidney Barney, Tamra's daughter with ex-husband Simon Barney, posted a lengthy message about her mother on Facebook on Monday, ripping her for putting "herself, her fame, her reputation, and her bank account before me."
"I want to start by clearing some things up as my mother continues to talk about me despite me requesting her to stop speaking of me publically as I don’t want to be associated with her or the show," she started her post.
Barney went on to share her side of what happened following her parents' divorce, saying she decided to move out of her mother's home to live with her father three years after they separated. "Me leaving has nothing to do with the divorce, it has to do with the living conditions at my mothers house and the way she treated me and still treats me today," she added.
Sidney said she initially "chose my mothers side" after the split, but soon came to the realization that it was a "toxic" situation.
"As I got older I realized what she was doing along with other things that were toxic. The reasons I left my mothers house are that she was neglectful (leaving us at home with no food or simply ignoring us entirely), she constantly put herself first and the biggest reason was that she was mentally and emotionally abusive," she continued. "She was no mother to me. This was an unhealthy environment for all of us kids and unfortunately I was the only one to recognize this and take steps to get out of that toxic environment."
Barney said the two went through therapy together for 3 years, but added "my mother is unable to recognize that she is in the wrong and continues to put blame on everything else."
She also called out Judge for posting a photo of them at Sidney's graduation on Instagram, after she had specifically asked her mother not to. She even shared screen grabs of their conversation on Twitter to prove the point.
"Although I do not want to be in the public eye, I felt the need to clear these lies up and set the record straight in hopes that it will straighten my mom out so that she is held accountable and is forced to do the right thing," she explained of her reasoning for putting her mother on blast.
"My mom has been portraying the innocent erased mother whose daughter was estranged from her due to divorce and an evil ex husband when in actuality she is the sole reason why I do not want her in my life and will not have a relationship with her," she added. "Instead of playing the innocent erased mother character, she could’ve been trying to actually fix our relationship and change her ways. However the character keeps her relevant, and is her only storyline. Why would she actually try to get me back? Without the estrangements she is no longer pitied and talked about and her fame and fortune go down the tubes."
When a follower let Judge know about Sidney's messages, Tamra simply tweeted, "Not surprised. #brainwashed Ask her paid for her very expensive college. I'm good when it works for her and her dad."
When contacted by TooFab, Judge had no further comment.