"You're not a wife when I marry you, you're a wife when I find you," he said to rapturous applause. "You become my wife when I marry you. But a wife is not the presence of a ring, it's the presence of your character. Too many women want to be married, but you're walking in the spirit of girlfriend."
This message didn't sit well with a lot of people on Twitter, and it immediately erupted in righteous wrath at the vague post, assuming all sorts of meaning. Shortly thereafter, other voices came to Ciara's defense, saying that the message is being misinterpreted by her haters. The whole debate was enough to push Ciara to the top of Twitter's trending topics, inspiring over 100,000 tweets.
So many sermons are tailored to telling women what they're doing wrong. But, why aren't there more teachings about men being the husband any woman would say 'yes' to? Not saying women should propose. Saying men get ya act together first!
Ciara's playing a dangerous game. You should never, no matter how perfect your relationship/marriage appears to be, sit on a throne and tell people why they're not romantically successful. You can be the queen of the ball today and have cake in your face tomorrow!
I saw the video Ciara posted and I just laughed. She's really acting like a woman who never thought she was gonna get married so being a wife is a huge deal and part of her identity now. I've seen several women act like that after securing a 'Mrs.' title 😂
Ciara is doing what many women do when they overcome trials and get married. She's using her marital status as a weapon against women who are not married. And it's clear that she's tied her value and sense of self worth to her marriage, otherwise she wouldn't have shared that.
Ciara can't talk shit. The ONLY reason she's married is because of love that wasn't reciprocated by the aint shit niggas that she actually wanted, so she had to settle for the simp ass good guy. If future had just went trough the motions, she'd still be just his main concubine
Or, we're looking at married woman who many supported wondering why she feels womens' accomplishments aren't enough for us to 'level up,' and that we need a man to select us as a wife to be worthy? Marriage is challenging and not a contest of women's worth.
A lot of you keep saying “Ciara can't talk, Russell Wilson isn't even husband material.” Bruh he married this woman , loves & respects her and takes care of a child that isn't his. Nobody even claiming y'all kids 🤣
y'all mad at ciara for telling y'all the truth . shut up and take her advice . her upgrade was the classiest shit evaaa . 😂 no shade but y'all bitches are way too comfortable in your situations but too quick to bash the next . you obviously need someone to tell you to boss up
Ciara said she stopped thinking like a girlfriend and started thinking like a wife and people are clapping back with, “but remember before you met Russell!?” like that wasn't her whole point. Who taught y'all how to argue? Lmaooo