P!nk Says She and Carey Hart Are "Due" for Third Break In 10 Years

The couple has split twice in the past, and the singer admits that their romance is still rocky ... 10 years later.

"Today is a good day," the Grammy-winner tells Ellen DeGeneres on today's show. "We take breaks. We've had two breaks," she says, noting that their yearlong and 11-month-long breaks happened before daughter Willow was born in 2011.

P!nk even jokes that she's "due" for another break from the BMX racer!

"What was your last fight?" Ellen asks.

"He always falls to sleep putting Willow to bed," the proud mom explains. "The other night I said, 'Are you going to stay up tonight?' And he said, 'I would like to.' I said, 'I don't really know what that means. Should I light candles and open wine and put on a show? Like, are we going big here? Or are you going to fall asleep again?' So, I lit the candles and opened the wine, and an hour and a half later, [Carey was fast asleep in their daughter's bedroom]."

"I'm caught up on Homeland, so we're good," she adds with a laugh. "And then he wakes up eventually; I'm pretending to be asleep. He comes in bed—it's pitch dark; he cannot see my face—and yet he rolls over and says, 'What's wrong?'"

"You lit candles," DeGeneres says. "He was supposed to go big."

"He was. He sucks," her guest jokes. "No, he's good. He doesn't. He's very, very handsome." More importantly, "He's an incredible dad. That's why he falls asleep, because she wants him to stay."

It sounds like these two know what works for them, despite a few bumps in the road, right?

Check out the clip below to see a sneak peek of little Willow in her mom's new music video for "Just Like Fire" -- she's adorable!