The situation was de-escalated after a third man waded in offering hugs... which was very surreal for the guy holding the gun.
update 1/6/2021 9:19 AM
The man with the gun seen in the video has given his side of the story.
Jacob explained what happened to Rener Gracie, after the jiu-jitsu legend realized he was a student of his academy, having noticed he was wearing a Gracie Jiu-Jitsu hoodie during the confrontation.
Jacob claimed that he was simply trying to park his car outside his own home when the second man, who was working for a moving company, somehow mistook this for an act of aggression and suddenly "snapped like a wild animal" and began attacking him inside his car.
He pulled out his licensed and legal firearm in an effort to get him to back off; the attacker did, but continued to shout threats and reach for his waistband, before hiding behind a car.
It was at this very tense point in the situation he said the third man walked in with his cell phone camera filming, talking about giving hugs.
"I've got a guy at gunpoint and a guy's tryna to hug me," Jacob laughed as he retold the story.
He went on to explain that his attacker later apologized, and told him that his dad had just died.
"We made up, and he's actually a cool guy," he said.
Later that night, he said his heart sank when he began getting texts from his friends.
"I was like, 'oh my gosh — the dude put it on the internet.' I even remember telling him 'hey man, get away with your camera, no-one cares about likes. I don't know what's going on,'" he groaned. "I knew what was going to happen, and it did... and now I'm all over the internet."
He added: "I thank God that nothing happened, the guy didn't stab me in my car, Jesus was looking out for me, and him, you know I'd hate to have had to pull the trigger on someone, that's horrible. But I also have to protect myself and I didn't know what was going on."
Gracie praised Jacob for his calm handling of the situation, and the fact that he didn't shoot the man in what he believed could have been a justifiable self defense.
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original story 1/5/2021 10:01 AM
An Atlanta man took his own life in his hands — quite literally — when he decided to break up an armed road rage standoff... with hugs.
Shaheed Dent was driving through his hometown of Clayton County on Sunday when he witnessed what would make most of us throw the car into reverse: one man pointing a gun at another.
But instead of ducking for cover, Shaheed risked his own life by immediately jumping out of the car and attempting to de-escalate the situation.
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View Story"I legit had to hop out da Chevy cause God was in my heart heavy," he wrote.
The fight, he said, broke out over a parking space.
"They got into a vocal argument that soon after turned physical," he wrote. "Black dude put some hands on white dude and damn near snatched him out of his car."
"When white boy drew down on em (He technically was in the right) black dude backed all the way back."
In the tense video, one man can be seen standing in the middle of the street, pointing the gun at the second man, who is kneeling behind a car.
"Get out of the way!" the armed man shouts, while the other dares him to "Shoot it! Shoot it!"
Wading right into the line of fire, Shaheed begs "Yo! Back up, hey y'all ain't gotta kill nobody today!"
"He just attacked me in my f--ing car!" the armed man exclaims, gun still pointed squarely at the now advancing second driver.
"Chill! Put it down bro. It's all love, it's 2021 Bro," he says, before giving the highly irate driver a hug, and then walking to the second man to give the same.
The two men made up later that day, he wrote.
"I've lost 4 friends in 2020 to the gun, and in 2021 I encourage you all to be the change you want to see," Shaheed wrote afterwards. "I love everyone no matter they color or background."
"This looks like the white guy in the wrong but it was deeper than that. Mistakes were made and it shouldn't have costed a life. I couldn't just stand idle. I might NEVER take the stand but ima stand for what I believe in. #NoMoreKilling2021"
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View StoryIn a follow up video, Shaheed explained what was going through his mind at the time, and what influenced his split second decision to get involved; aside from the four close friends he lost to gun violence in 2020 alone, he said he also never met his own paternal grandmother, after she was shot dead in front of his dad.
"I don't wanna keep scrolling through my timeline and seeing folks getting shot," he said. "I don't wanna see no bodies."
He also revealed that he knew the armed man was in the right to pull his gun — because he had been in that situation himself, "and unfortunately I shot someone."
"When I seen that situation I knew the white guy was in the right... but at that point in time, he didn't have to take it there," he said. "When you're in that situation, you know when you have to, and when you don't have to. You're not afraid for you life? Then don't shoot, and don't kill, bro."
"The Black dude, he could've got popped when he was pulling the dude out of the car. But he didn't."
After watching him flee from the gun and hide behind the car, "I seen the look in his face, like his whole life flashing before him," he recalled.
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To the few who accused him of posting for clout, and questioning why he took his phone out in the first place, he retorted: "I posted that to show positivity. I posted that to try and change something in here," he added, pointing to his heart.
He begged those watching to respect one another, as no argument is worth a life — yours or theirs.
"That might be your last chapter," he said. "That might be the end of your book."
In another plot twist, he said the armed man in the video had threatened him with legal action for "slandering his name" — even though Shaheed vouched for his actions.
"I never said anything about that man's character," he said. "First of all he was the first person I gave a hug to. I was not choosing sides."
"I don't want you to judge the white man all crazy, I don't want you to judge the Black man all crazy.
"A lot of folks are saying I saved that man's life... God is the only one who can say whether that man was gonna get mad enough to squeeze it or not; but I didn't leave until he said 'man, I'm not going to shoot that man, I'm not going to kill him.' He looked me straight in the eyes and said that."