"Every time I got the kids for Christmas my other family members were on opposite years with their families/kids & we started doing big vacations about 5 years ago," she said. "So Christmas can be with their dads & they don’t have to worry about splitting it."
She also made sure to point out that her children "look forward to our family vacation every year. My kids don't want or need for [sic] anything & I am thankful for that. Maybe one day we will celebrate without gifts on another day."